Saturday, January 28, 2012

Characters Giving Back

The first manuscript I ever critiqued was for my good friend and amazing writer, Theresa. It still sticks with me, which is a testament to a well written story.

Without giving too much away, one of the MCs volunteers at a soup kitchen.

One of the stories I've written revolves around a teenage girl who gives her time to be a role model for an eight-year-old girl.

Often times we put our characters through the ringer. We force them to deal with death, love lost, the end of the world. It is how our characters react to these issues that shows us who they are.

Sometimes we write characters who, without being forced into a life or death situation, feel driven to help others, feel the need to give back.

I'm curious. Have you read or written a character who feels compelled to give back, volunteer? Why do they do it? What do they do? What does this tell you about them?


I'll go first. :) In the case of Emma, the girl who becomes a role model for eight-year-old Gigi in one of my stories, her motives are selfish, at first. She wants to get into a good college and needs volunteer hours. Gigi is her perfect charity case. But then she realizes all she has in common with the little girl and what a good influence she can have on her life. In the end, when she has to make an incredibly difficult choice, she ultimately chooses the unselfish option, promising to always be there for Gigi.


This post idea was inspired by some volunteer work I did while at a work conference in New Orleans. We put in three hours at Second Harvest and it was a really wonderful experience.

One in eight people in Louisiana are hungry. It felt good to get my hands dirty with complete strangers to do our own little part to help feed the community.


One of the coolest part about the experience were the others who volunteered with me. Out of the forty of us we had some from Germany, Italy, Brazil, Mexico and a number from the US. As we all packed boxes of donated food, sang to music and tried not to get run over my forklifts, it was totally awesome to think that many of the people helping weren't from the United States.





Our job, and yes we chose to accept it ;), was to unpack the boxes from the grocery store onto the conveyor belt where it moved to an area to be sorted. So by the end we had boxes of dry goods, canned goods, drinks, etc.

 These are the sorting ladies. TOTALLY reminded me of the I Love Lucy episode with Ethel, Lucy and the chocolates. They did a fantastic job.


Have you done any volunteering lately? Tell us so we can all say THANK YOU!

23 comments:

  1. What a neat thing for your work conference to offer! I volunteered for three weeks in an orphanage in Ecuador many years ago, and it was an amazing experience. The kids, and many of the staff, are still in my heart.

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    1. Oh Lara! That's wonderful! Wow, something like that truly has to change a person. Thank you so much for doing that. I'm sure everyone there couldn't thank you enough!

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  2. I love that episode of I Love Lucy!

    Volunteer work is so much fun and I'm lucky I get to participate in so much of it in my community. :) Really does inspire us.

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    1. Good for you Cassie! I'm sure your community thanks you all the time :)

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  3. I love the thought of having our characters "doing service." Seriously! I think we forget that with all the plight we want to put them through. And I think doing service ourselves is great too. Two Christmas' ago we went with the family to help send packages to the troops overseas. Things like toothpaste, deodorant, socks, etc. It was great. I used to tutor children to learn how to read too. It was a neat experience. I loved the kids and I learned a lot. :)

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    1. Wow. Our troops are so lucky! To do that on Christmas. That really sends an awesome message to your family.

      I used to tutor kids too! It feels so good when you're able to help them with something as important as learning.

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  4. You always manage to make me smile :)

    I wrote an entire book based on a girl who volunteers at a soup kitchen yet I have never done so. It's terrible really. I would love to one day and plan on it. The idea came to me based on a memory. My mom was a preschool teacher years ago and in the back was a church that had a soup kitchen every Wednesday. I remember the line forming hours before the doors opened. It made me realize that not everybody was as fortunate as I was. It was a real eye opener at a young age.

    I shamefully admit that I haven't volunteered in awhile but I always try to help out where I can. My friend was a first grade teacher in East New York and she told me that her kids really didn't get presents for Christmas. It broke my heart. So I went out and bought coloring books, crayons, bubbles and books for them. Then I recruited three of my friends to come over and help me wrap everything. I got handmade thank you cards from every kid in her class and she told me that when she asked them after break what they got for Christmas most of them told her what I gave them was all they got.

    You amaze me with all that you do, so Thank you :)

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    1. Theresa!!! That is SO sweet! You sometimes here of people buying gifts for those in need, through a program or something. But for you to do that just because you wanted to, that is awesome. You gave those kids something very special. I bet that memory will stay with them forever, just like the one with your mom and the soup kitchen.

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  5. Wow, good for you, what a great experience! I love the way that service seems to get our minds off our own problems, helps us be grateful--or it does for me, anyway! At Christmas I took my 4 y/o and we helped with a program called Operation Rudolf to send care packages, ornaments, candy, letters, small gifts etc. to soldiers overseas. It was fun to see my son participate!

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    1. Our troops are so lucky! Both you and Leigh were helping them out at Christmas.

      And you're right. When you volunteer you realize how silly most of your problems are.

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  6. Well, I wrote a character who volunteered to mentor bc it was part of the school's community service hour requirements. I always forget that there are teens out there who volunteer bc they WANT to, not bc they have to. I was a rape victim advocate in hospital ERs for 8 years and now am on the board of an organization who assists rape victims in telling their stories. It is actually where one of my books came from. Your experience in NO seems really amazing. I am proud of you for doing it.

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    1. Thanks Christa!

      I am SO proud of you for helping rape victims like that. Wow. That has to be incredibly difficult yet we know its very important. Those ladies (and men) are lucky to have you give of your time. You've changed their lives forever I'm sure.

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  7. Now that sounds like a great work conference. I'm glad you were able to do it. I used to do literacy volunteer work, but haven't done that since I became a Mom. Instead, my son and I visit a church member, who has dementia. She doesn't always remember us, but for the 30 minutes we are there — well, we're all living in the moment. Most of the people I know do some kind of volunteer work, so it seems natural that characters in a story would want to give back.

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    1. My grandma has Alzheimers. Same thing, she doesn't know who I am. But she knows that I'm a friend so for the time I spend with her she's happy.

      That is so good of you to do that for a 'stranger'. Your son is learning such a valuable lesson!

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    1. Hoppin' over right now! Thanks Hope!

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  9. Hey Kelley,
    That's a lovely post. I wish I could say I had but I've been very selfish I'm afraid. I did loan out our house to friends who were displaced in the christchurch earthquakes, but I feel guilty that that's all I did. I must get my act together as I would love to volunteer somewhere. :)

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    1. Jade! You loaned your house! That is SUPER thoughtful! You really helped your friends out in their time of need. That totally counts. What a great person you are!

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  10. I love when characters think of moral things and have the desire to help other people. My main character doesn't think about it at first, it's just a natural reaction. People need help and she does it.

    I have sadly not volunteered lately but I want to. Life just pushes in around me but I need to make the time.

    Great post!

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    1. I hear you with life getting in the way. Some times in our lives are more difficult than others. Sometimes its just the small things we can do, like donating clothes to Goodwill or something.

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  11. Most of my 'good' charactrers like to help in one way or another, though as they are in space it can get difficult.

    As for me, I work one afternoon a week in a local charity shop, selling clothes and stuff to raise money for a local hospice.

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    1. Martin, that's wonderful! Thank you so much for volunteering!

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  12. I really enjoyed this post - and kudos to you for volunteering!

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